Do you feel like you have no mind at all, like you can't remember anything?
Well, it's all part of the territory of being pregnant and then of being a new mom. It just happens. It is a real thing, too, not something your gal pals made up or refer to in a joking manner. Once those pregnancy hormones hit you are completely gone in the brain territory.
With all you have to think about now that you never thought of before... no wonder you cannot focus or keep your mind where it used to be! It's normal, just know that. You are still the same smart person you used to be, just a little more distracted now. Give yourself a break- and ask others to do the same for you! You can't help it. Blame it on the baby!